The Four Agreements That Will Change Your Life

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By DavidOValentin

The Four Agreements

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Discover What Robs You of Joy

Not long ago, a friend shared with me a book I had heard of, but never taken the time to read. It is a book that spent over six years on the New York Times Best Seller List.

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz is a practical guide to personal freedom that has made a huge impact on my life.

If you have ever been in a place where all seems lost, and you've tried many things to find the joy and peace you long for, than this is the kind of book that can change your life. I read this book in a short time, and experienced the effects for weeks afterwards.

Some of What You Believe May Be Wrong

What if some of the very things you have believed your whole life are wrong? What if these false beliefs have kept you bound tin negative thoughts and feelings for years?

If you could accept the possibility that some of the beliefs you have held dear for many years could be incorrect, you may be able to find that joy and peace.

The Four Agreements that Miguel Ruiz shares come from the Toltec tradition. The Toltecs had been previously unfamiliar to me and I was skeptical to say the least, when this book was introduced to me. I took the chance on the recommendation of my friend and I am glad that I did.

The Four Agreements

  1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
  2. Don't Take Anything Personal
  3. Don't Make Assumptions
  4. Always Do Your Best

Be Impeccable With Your Word

Understanding that what you say, not only to others, but also to yourself, actually makes a difference is the first step to changing your life. Words have power. When you choose to take control of your words, you are choosing to take control of your life.

Don't Take Anything Personal

"Nothing others do is because of you." This statement is liberating. So often we take others actions to mean there is something wrong with us. When we let go of this belief, storms can rage around us and we can be at peace.

Don't Make Assumptions

How often do we act or react based on what we believe to be the truth? More often than not, our assumptions prove wrong, yet these assumptions can cause us to suffer. When we learn to stop assuming, we can become better communicators and reduce the pain that comes from misunderstandings.

Always Do Your Best

When you know you've done your best, you can find rest, even amid the criticism of others. Learning to be happy with your best can increase your personal joy.

Are you ready to discover the secret code of the Totec that can transform your life?


Comments

Admiral_Joraxx profile image

Admiral_Joraxx Level 5 Commenter 7 months ago

Hey! this book is interesting!, Thanks for sharing this.

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MidwestJerseyGirl Level 1 Commenter 7 months ago

My neighbor recently read this book and raved so much about how it helped her transform her thinking that it saved her marriage. I read it and liked the simplicity of the 4 agreements. It's easy to remember them and remind yourself of their impact. Voted up and Interesting!

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DavidOValentin Hub Author 7 months ago

Thank you Admiral Joraxx and MidwestJerseyGirl for leaving a comment on this article. I am enjoying sharing this book often.

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